I may not be reaching the heights of thespian success just yet, but in my waitressing career things are going rather well!
Last night I was serving at the MTV EMA after party in Liverpool and
got to rub shoulders with the most famous in the music industry. I must
admit as much I like to think I'm up to date with upcoming music, there
were some people who were wandering around with numerous bodyguards and
I had no idea who they were.
The event did offer a unique insight into the life of the superstar, unable to walk anywhere on their own, bodyguards restricting any bodily contact from other people and constantly followed by a barrage of groupies at every turn - is that really so glamorous? Observing the acts who didn't hide away in the VVIP rooms, it occurred to me that they never totally relaxed or let their hair down, and were unable to be themselves. Those who did remove themselves from the throngs of the party remained recluses for the whole night, and only whispers of their location where ever heard of. I can understand their desire to have a hassle free night, but surely holed up in a room full of other uber celebrities was not in any way a true reflection of the party atmosphere that surrounded them. Yet perhaps being surrounded by other artists of equal success offered a sense of equilibrium, a chance to be free from idolisation. In any event I certainly had a good time - maybe even more than the guests!
Despite my slight cynicism of the cebebrity lifestyle, I wouldn't mind a bit of success and recognition, and who wouldn't? I am quite certain however that I would not want the life of an A-lister celebrity because I value my freedom and privacy. Recognition and respect from within the industry would be enough for me, and as far as the public are concerned - I would certainly like to remain a member.
The event did offer a unique insight into the life of the superstar, unable to walk anywhere on their own, bodyguards restricting any bodily contact from other people and constantly followed by a barrage of groupies at every turn - is that really so glamorous? Observing the acts who didn't hide away in the VVIP rooms, it occurred to me that they never totally relaxed or let their hair down, and were unable to be themselves. Those who did remove themselves from the throngs of the party remained recluses for the whole night, and only whispers of their location where ever heard of. I can understand their desire to have a hassle free night, but surely holed up in a room full of other uber celebrities was not in any way a true reflection of the party atmosphere that surrounded them. Yet perhaps being surrounded by other artists of equal success offered a sense of equilibrium, a chance to be free from idolisation. In any event I certainly had a good time - maybe even more than the guests!
Despite my slight cynicism of the cebebrity lifestyle, I wouldn't mind a bit of success and recognition, and who wouldn't? I am quite certain however that I would not want the life of an A-lister celebrity because I value my freedom and privacy. Recognition and respect from within the industry would be enough for me, and as far as the public are concerned - I would certainly like to remain a member.
You can't have your cake and eat it.... recognition and respect from within the industry might propel you to roles that may be higher profile, or even if not on the page, could turn into a juggernaut with you only having just "done the job". Superstar celebrity may be bestowed upon you, whether you like it or not. Unless someone opts for the real hermit lifestyle, if a bit of success is what one's after, you gotta be prepared for the fact it might escalate beyond what you initially predicted. And even if you don't court it, at least early on, they'll still be knocking on your door.
I suspect the celebrities view these parties less as fun nights out and more like tedious 'work' in most cases. And if they were quiet and kept themselves to themselves is it any wonder, when they are probably just as shy as anyone else and are probably aware that there are a lot of undercover media spies and people out there who would sell them under the table to the best offer going on the slightest bit of news or gossip. At least other celebrities are aware of these pitfalls and there's a camaraderie about it.